4 WAYS TO SPICE UP YOUR SEX LIFE

 

 

Having a good sex life is important.

Pleasure and satisfaction in your sex life not only help you to enjoy sex better with your partner, but it also adds greater intimacy between couples and increases the affection between them. 

There are all too often stories of couples who broke up or suffer strains in the relationship because of the lack of good sex life. 

If you are looking for ways to spice things up a bit in your sex life to enjoy better sex, this article will provide you with 4 great methods. 

Trying to spice up your lackluster sex life is not difficult. 

It takes a bit of creativity and of course effort on your part. 

There are kinky sex toys, contraptions, and accessories that can help you enhance your sexual pleasure. 

However, not all these stuff are suitable or acceptable to everyone and they do cost a bit of money to acquire. 

Not to mention the discretion that must be exercised when buying such sexual products and the embarrassment that must be endured when people find such products in your possession. 

There are simple ways to spice up your sex life and have better quality sex with your partner without having to use external aid or spend tons of money. 

The best things in life are always free. 

Below are 4 simple ways to spice up your and your partner’s sexual experience that will totally blow both of your minds off. 

1. Begin with a massage. 

A sensual massage will definitely be the right way to start your intimate journey. 

This should not be the typical deep muscle tissue kind of massage. 

There is absolutely nothing sexy about those massages. 

This massage should be gentle and sensual, done with nice fragrant oil applied to the body. 

You can begin at the shoulder and slowly make your way down his or her body. 

This will definitely tingle your senses and awaken any dormant sexual drive in you and your partner. 

2. Add a blindfold. 

This may be seen as taking a leaf out of some pornographic movie but the classic blindfold is still a very good method to induce positive sexual tensions and excitement. 

Blindfold your partner and do the things that you know he or she likes. 

Imagination is very important here. 

Do something that will surprise your blindfolded partner in a pleasant way. 

In having better sex, sometimes it is not the end results that matter. 

What is really crucial is the sexual foreplay that can really result in a mind-blowing, explosive climax at the end. 

This is especially true for women. 

So guys, take note of this if you want your woman to achieve that evasive orgasm that she never seems to be able to get in the past. 

3. Explore your food. 

Ever heard of or seen sashimi served on a human body? 

Again, this may seem like a scene from some pornographic movie but mixing sex with food can be really a turn-on. 

There are many suitable food items such as strawberries, bananas, cherries, cream, or ice creams. 

However, my personal recommendation is chocolate syrup as chocolate is a proven aphrodisiac that can really pump up your libido. 

Playing with your food on your body can be messy but it will be worth it. 

With all the external stimuli on various parts of your body, things are definitely going to be heated up. 

 4. Play act. 

Nothing turns a man on more than his sexual fantasy coming alive. 

Believe it or not, a woman has her sexual fantasies too. 

The role of play-acting can really spice things up with the kinky roles that fulfill your and your partner’s sexual fantasy. 

There are many costumes and outfits that you can buy to get into your roles. Some of the popular roles are air stewardess and pilot, nurse and doctor, cops and robbers, teacher, student, etc. 

Women can wear sexy lingerie which is now available in different styles & colors to enhance their desires.

It does not need a lot of money. 

You just need an active and sexy imagination to do this and it will really spice up your sex. 

Never ever use the same technique always it will make the act boring.

While there are methods to spice up your and your partner's sex life and to achieve better sex in the process, an important pre-requisite is that you have the required sexual drive and stamina. 

Having a larger penis that can sustain a strong and lasting erection is also crucial. 

Don’t worry about that aspect if you do not have the pre-requisite. 

There are ways and techniques to help you in that department.